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Testimonials & Soultyping
Stories
1) I want
to share with you all a moment of pure grace that happened when my
daughter was typed by Barbara and Alan yesterday at the typing training
in Minneapolis.
Jessica
had come to baby-sit their daughter, and I had told them that I suspected
Jessica was soultype 4 energy, reflected by what I experienced as
her very gentle nature and intimate way. Of course what I did not
say (but I bet they knew) was that my ego was totally attached to
being absolutely sure that she was a soultype 4in fact, so sure
that I had trained her in everything about assuming the soultype 4
stance and connecting to the world in a soultype 4 way. So, image
my surprise (quickly followed by concern, guilt, self consciousness,
and all of those other ego things) when Barbara and Alan both said
they suspected Jessica might be another number, perhaps a soultype
2. My ego could hardly grasp the concept that she would be a 2their
way of engaging with the world seemed impossible from my life experience
with Jessica.
When
we broke for lunch I brought Jessica to be typed by Barbara. The rest
is truly a miracle. As I anxiously watched on (as only a mother would
do), I saw Barbara in the most gentle, loving way bring her soul to
the typing of my daughter. Jessica responded first by glancing down
as she had so often done in that soultype 4 way, until Barbara gently
invited her to look up and into her eyes. And in that moment I witnessed
the birth of my daughters soul as I saw her lock eyes with Barbara
and come into her power.
For
the rest of my life I will hold that image of pure aliveness and joy
that I sawin a fraction of a secondfirst in Jessicas
eyes and then in her whole being as Barbara brought her soul out into
the world. When she danced the soultype 2 dance and I saw the TRUE
Jessica filled with joy and life and every wonderful thing that only
the soultype 2s in their most unique way bring to our world. So, this
soul work holds a very sacred and special place in my heart.
I
know that our work is about the birth of soulgently and soulfully
creating the space for us to experience the sacred in another. I
have witnessed in Jessica a birth as magnificent as her physical
birth fourteen years ago. I am profoundly touched. She is changed.
I am changed, and I am humbled. There is no place for ego in this
work. I really get that now.
Thank
you from the bottom of my heart for all of you that participated in
holding the space for my daughters soul to come forth. I look
forward to dancing the soultype 2 dance with her and seeing her bring
her souls expression to the world for the rest of our lives.
Rise - SoulType 6
2) His demeanor seemed softer than I remembered, and he walked differently. Greater fluidity and an even greater sense of ease. Initially he appeared somewhat distracted, thinking, mapping, gauging, considering.
He was in the company of some of his students and no Barbara. So he got to stand in a place and within a space with a different sense of self, of co-activity and of interaction with his students, with us.
The gathering was sound and the participants, some seasoned, some brand new to the way of the soul and yet each one ready to be open to learn, to experience, to come to the circle as newborns, soft and fresh. Alan, teacher, student, watching interactions, considering, becoming more and more present. Reaching into himself, reaching into others with great gentleness, with assuredness only of the opportunity for souls to be revealed; giving his unique gift easily, softly, gently, lovingly, and all the while watching and considering.
As each hour passed the intensity grew and the group became connected to one another gradually through soul. Aliveness and centeredness co-existed in his being. He opened to Source, he sensed his students, he worked his participants, through his body always asking for more, always getting it.
What next? What now? Each time the design allowed for the fullness of the experience to shine through. In moments of seeing him, the sacred came upon him and in him. As the sacred was revealed to us all, reality was altered. In awe he saw the magic work and knew that he was holding something unique, that a new life was being born into manifestation and his work was ever more transformed.
The intimacy within the group was palpable, real, grounded and sacred. No more would the old questions appear. No more would doubt cloud clarity. The way had been found and the opening of heart and mind to the universal understanding had been experienced.
Profound humility surrounded him and with input from all, spoken and unspoken, the weekend unfolded. He knew that each of us had experienced the sacred too. As he ended the session there was a softness to his body and a light around his being. In this community of souls at one, with a knowing that went far beyond words, he saw that we had accepted his gift and carried at least for the moment the knowing of alignment of body and soul with Source. He was left standing alone in his knowing, in his clarity and I wept for the beauty of it all.
Linda Moore, SoulType 4
January 2005
3) Dear
Alan and Barbara,
I was
in the CTI Leadership group "Grandfather's Breath" last
week and I wanted to thank you personally for the soultyping work
you did with me. Your session with us was truly a gift and for me,
it was worth the entire cost of the leadership program. I feel a sense
of coming home. Everything makes sense to me now. I know my place
in the universe!
...I
feel very strongly about what you are doing - everyone on the planet
should find out their soultype. I would like to learn more about what
you are doing and perhaps train with you to become an associate.
Again,
thank you for the special gift you gave to me on Saturday. I will
remember you both - always.
Roel - SoulType 1
4) Not
a day goes by that I don't give thanks for the gift of New Equations,
the language of the soul.
Thanks
Alan and Barbara!
Peace,
Kelly
- SoulType 1
5) Hi
Alan and Barbara,
It
looked like you are on line so I would like to say hi! I also want
to thank you two for the gift you both are to me and the rest of
the New Equations community! This year has been one of the best
of my life and the work you two are doing has been a HUGE part of
it! The peace and joy you both bring into the world and for me goes
beyond words. And I love looking at how to connect soul to soul
with people. There isn't a day that goes by that I haven't been
conscious of creating this in my own way with at least 10 people
a day! I love you guys and am looking forward to being with you
both again in Feb. and March! (And who knows how many other times
this year). Blessing to you both and to Jenna and Pumpkin in the
coming year!
Love,
Mike
- SoulType 8
6) Dear Community,
We
had an incredible day yesterday and wanted to share it with you
while still fresh. I organized 20 people to be SoulTyped by Alan
and Barbara and the impact was intense. We had such great learning
about the typing process, the power of the soul's energy in a group
setting, for me, the challenge of six slowing down, sitting with
the tension and vulnerability and opening up enough to make soul
level connection with others.
I
had the wonderful opportunity to watch my friends and family have
the honoring experience of connecting to their own souls and the
souls of those around them, of watching them come home to who they
are at their most core level. And I have been given the gift of
relating to each one in a new and incredibly powerful and soulful
way. How rich my life is becoming.
My
guesses about family and friends had been just that, guesses. And
no more accurate than statistically guessing would be. So more good
learning for the journey. Yesterday was a huge milestone. The two
biggest surprises were that my ex-husband is a SoulType One and
my current boyfriend, is a six like me.
That
my husband is a one caught me off guard, I was expecting him to
be a 7 or 9. It made me quite sad, that all this time I had the
1-6 connection at my finger tips, and probably never really had
that level of connection with him. I was quite incredulous and it
felt so right. Alan gave us some amazing words of wisdom on how
to create a new way of being together. For me Alan is continually
challenging me to sit in the tension of the energy that shows up,
to wait and see what develops before I move to action. This resonates
for me as a six, as soon as energy starts to get stirred up I want
to do something about it, rather than sitting in it and letting
develop what needs to develop. Six in the world today has trouble
waiting, we begin to move when the energy gets big and it can come
across aggressively.
And,
Alan challenged my husband to do what he does naturally, to hold
my gaze, soften his eyes and stay vulnerable. When Brian said good-bye
to me he gave me a hug, the first in a very long time, but he could
not look at me. Alan asked him to take that step to vulnerability,
and he did, he raised his chin, and looked in my eyes, and told
me that he loves me and always has. So perhaps today will be a new
day in our relationship, and we will be able to build a stable and
supportive co-parenting relationship. It was an amazing moment in
a longtime angry and antagonistic relationship.
Finding
out that my boyfriend is a six was also a surprise. Because same
type couples are rare, it didn't occur to me that he might be a
six. And now that I know, it makes so much sense. We move the same
way, he says stuff like I do, we relate beautifully to each other
and understand each other very well, and there is this huge intensity
between us that never needs to be spoken and a knowledge of where
we are energetically in relationship. I think this one is here for
me to learn to explore six deeply in relationship. We have been
dating for eight months, and he has never said that he loves me.
Last
night we were talking on the phone and he was acknowledging the
power of the work, at first he was extremely skeptical and unwilling,
and he was really watching out for me, he didn't want me to be duped
by anyone into anything. And, of course, he left convinced of the
truth of this work and from what I can tell so far, quite impacted.
When we said good night, I said "I love you" and he said
"Me too." A very big step forward.
The
other powerful part of the experience of yesterday was that there
were several family units typed. There was a grandmother (8), mother
(1) daughter (6) trio that was typed. The impact on them was quite
visible relief and a deepening of understanding in what makes them
unique and special in their relationship. It was so powerful. There
was another trio, two who had been typed and got their daughter
typed, step dad (6), Mom (7) and daughter (8). What a nifty combination.
I believe this is where the work gets so powerful, as an individual
it is enlightening, awakening, but in relationship it is empowering
and joyful.
I
think that is the best part about all of this. There is so much
love in the world. Connection with other is the divine source of
love. Step into this with your physical strength, all of you. Go
to your bodies, find your deepest connection to yourself, and come
to the world from that place. It isn't about forcing anything, it's
about allowing your gift, your love, your way of being in the world
to come out so that others can do the same. It's about staying with
it, and staying with it, and not running off into "doing"
to escape the beauty of what is there but seems too intense to experience.
Be brave my friends.
I
love you all very much, and I am excited for what is to come. The
world got to be a little brighter yesterday. Let's all keep it moving.
Love,
Susan
- SoulType 6
7) To
all ICF Chapter Members:
I
appear to be the cheerleader for upcoming events for great coaching
activities during the winter months--so be it. The following message
relates to the upcoming workshop featuring Alan Sheets and Barbara
Tovey, of New Equations from San Rafael, California. They will be
giving a 2-day and one evening workshop on March 22, 23 and 24.
Alan
Sheets and Barbara Tovey of New Equations have literally changed
my life, with their SoulTyping work. They have absolutely changed
my coaching. By being able to access fundamental strengths (for
me, it is the strength of being able to powerfully align and connect
with others) within me and by being able to anchor and access those
strengths within my physical body, I am a much more fulfilled human
being, as well as a much better coach.
I use these skills all of the time when I get into a jam in my coaching,
and when I am about to do something that I am fearful of doing, such
as marketing or presenting to a group of people. By recognizing and
being able to call upon my strengths, I have something to access at
times when I am in doubt. I also now know how to turn up the volume
on these strengths, in order to have them better serve me, rather
than being more haphazard and unknowing as to what I am doing that
is actually useful to me.
My
personal relationships have improved dramatically as a result of
having done this work. I now work with Alan and Barbara--they are
subcontractors in a Leadership Program that I am a co-leader of
in California. They work closely with all of our Leadership participants.
In fact, last week with Alan and Barbara, they helped to ground
our Leadership Participants in their strengths, just before the
participants headed up onto a series of very challenging high ropes
events where they worked in pairs. The participants repeatedly stated
that they overcame their fear by getting grounded in their SoulType
strengths and, as a result, were much more able to listen to and
work with their partners to achieve a greater outcome on each ropes
element, than if they had simply scrambled up in fear and trepidation.
My wife, my son and my daughter have all been soul-typed. Our family
dynamic has dramatically changed as we all now are able to take into
consideration and understand not only our strengths, but also our
challenges and the default behaviors that don't work for us. I will
be returning to take this workshop with my son. I urge you to do the
same. Is it pricey? Absolutely. Will it make a difference for you?
Without question.
I
know this sounds like a long commercial, but it is only because
I so strongly believe in this work. For those of you who know me,
you know that I don't endorse quirky, or fad-like things. This endorsement
comes from the heart and it is because I want us to grow a very
strong and self-confident coaching community. Our clients and those
who are yet to benefit from all that coaching has to offer, deserve
to have us be as grounded and strong and committed to them as we
can be--so do our friends and families. Getting soultyped will absolutely
support that effort.
Thanks
for listening,
Sam
- SoulType 4
8) Dear
Barbara and Alan,
I
wanted to thank you for a magnificent experience. Your work was
invaluable to the outcome of the day. The girls were completely
inspired by who you were and the discovery you both have made. In
fact here's what some of them had to say.
"The
soul typing was so cool. I can finally relax about being who I am."
"I
was skeptical at first but now I have a new way to look at myself."
"I
have always been in touch with my emotions and now I know I can trust
them."
"I
liked the soul typing best. It gave me information I didn't know."
"I
have a purpose for living now. I have a soul."
So
you can see the impact. Thank you again...I would love to have a
conversation later about learning more about this work so I can
teach it too.
Warmly,
Rose
- SoulType 6
9) Hi
Barbara and Alan,
I
attended a Co-Active Space Leadership retreat (ThunderBeing
community)...where you typed me as a SoulType Four. I didn't
expect that four was my type, yet it makes so much sense.
I've done a lot of "self-work" over the years and
the soultyping was like finding a missing piece of the puzzle
(a piece that I didn't know even existed!).
I
have experienced a profound peacefulness and knowing since then,
something that is hard for me to explain. (And since you've
probably heard it before, I'll make it brief!) The experience
of being grounded in my type is like being a living, breathing
work of art. When I am grounded, I feel like a masterpiece by
Michelangelo or Botticelli's Venus. It's beautiful, often to
the point of tears. Thank you for bringing this work to me and
to the world.
My
challenge (and most likely the challenge of all types) is
actually around "how" to use the gift of Four. I
am waiting in wild anticipation of the next retreat to learn
more!
Much
gratitude,
Mary
- SoulType 4
"The
fastest, most effective team building we have seen."
John
Graham
Chief Operating Officer
BP International
International Supply and Trading
Europe and Africa Oil |
"I
want to thank you for creating great harmony among senior staff
at Arthur Andersen. Let's create a New Equations study community
in Japan for the sake of respecting every soul in the world."
Eisaku
Tsumura
HR&D Management
Arthur Andersen Japan |
"Alan
and Barbara work with our hospital staff and the effects have
been nothing short of incredible. Turnover has reduced, vacant
positions have been filled, we are meeting (and even beating)
budget every month and employee and patient satisfaction is at
an all-time high."
Dr.
Allan Komarek
Executive Director
Delano Regional Medical Center |
"I
recommend this program without reservation. Its impact is profound."
Karen
Kimsey-House
Cofounder
Coaches Training Institute |
"The
simple way you were able to discern each person's strength alleviated
our fears and opened our hearts and minds to our strength and
a new perspective for looking at others and society."
Jan
Hubbard, M. Div., Coordinator
California State Education and
Development Department |
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